The Backbiter

Iraqi style
English

The Backbiter

Steadfast masters of the mystic path sat together for a while in seclusion. One of them began to gossip, speaking ill of some poor wretch. Someone said to him, 'My frantic friend, have you ever fought a holy war in Europe?' He answered, 'In all my life I've never set foot beyond the four walls of my own house.' The honest dervish then remarked, 'I've never seen anyone so out of luck:' 'The infidel sits safe from his fighting, yet the Muslim can't escape the cruelty of his tongue.' How well the madman of Merv once said something that makes you bite your lip in shame: 'If I ever speak ill of anyone by name, I'll speak of no one but my own mother.' 'For the wise know that the greatest good deed is the reward a mother earns for her devotion.' When a companion is absent, good friend, two things toward him are forbidden to his friends: One, to devour his wealth unjustly; the other, to drag his name through gossip. Whoever slanders people's names in scorn, don't expect any kindness from him yourself, for behind your back he'll say the very same things he said of others to your face. In my eyes the only wise person in this world is the one absorbed in himself and blind to the world.
Explanation: The 'madman of Merv' is a proverbial holy fool. His line about only slandering his own mother is ironic: since a mother's obedience earns reward, there is nothing bad to say, so he vows never to gossip.

Original · Persian

بخش ۱۶ - حکایت

طریقت شناسان ثابت قدم به خلوت نشستند چندی به هم
یکی زان میان غیبت آغاز کرد در ذکر بیچاره‌ای باز کرد
کسی گفتش ای یار شوریده رنگ تو هرگز غزا کرده‌ای در فرنگ؟
بگفت از پس چار دیوار خویش همه عمر ننهاده‌ام پای پیش
چنین گفت درویش صادق نفس ندیدم چنین بخت برگشته کس
که کافر ز پیکارش ایمن نشست مسلمان ز جور زبانش نرست
چه خوش گفت دیوانهٔ مرغزی حدیثی کز او لب به دندان گزی
من ار نام مردم بزشتی برم نگویم به جز غیبت مادرم
که دانند پروردگان خرد که طاعت همان به که مادر برد
رفیقی که غایب شد ای نیک نام دو چیزست از او بر رفیقان حرام
یکی آن که مالش به باطل خورند دوم آن که نامش به غیبت برند
هر آن کو برد نام مردم به عار تو خیر خود از وی توقع مدار
که اندر قفای تو گوید همان که پیش تو گفت از پس مردمان
کسی پیش من در جهان عاقل است که مشغول خود وز جهان غافل است